There's a philosophical divide here that I'm still struggling with. I want to be a careful, critical thinker, but honestly I'm not sure I'll ever get there.
It's not that I think I'm not smart enough or whatever, it's that I'm not interested in constructing bullet-proof, logically coherent and convincing arguments to persuade others. It's exhausting, and it's not my responsibility.
I'm just going to live my life and try not to fuck up too badly. If that also changes someone's mind, great.
/ps