interpersonal vent /3
I have a hard time with people who refuse to accept their own agency in a situation. Like, it's always possible to change something about your situation, even if it's only a change in your own perspective.
I can only hear someone complain about the same thing a few times before I get kind of fed up with their shit. Maybe that's unfair of me, considering how much I complain about the same shit over and over again.
I guess the difference is I know I'm trying to change.