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FFS talkThe thing that truly drives me insane from dysphoria/dysmorphia is the excess flesh under my chin, and on my cheeks. I think that might just be fat though. Just lipo that shit out of there and...
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FFS talkGodddess, if there is a way I can eliminate some of my worst dysphoria triggers without having to wait years, that would be amazing *dreamy expression*
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Might have just realized why I'm so averse to doing voice training. I think it's because in my head I don't view myself as being passable. I believe that changing my voice won't actually change how...
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Not changing my voice is a kind of defense mechanism because it preemptively signals to everyone that I'm just as aware as them that I'm not meeting the mark on my appearance. It's a kind like a way to...
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If I started speaking like a woman, it stops being an act. They have to confront the fact that I do, in fact, believe I am a woman. I go from being "that lovable queer guy that looks a lot like a...
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It would be different if voice training were easier. The fact that it takes so much effort makes taking that leap even harder, because as soon as I do it's not just my appearance that misses the mark,...
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I was contemplating getting FFS, top, and bottom surgeries earlier and what it would feel like to be free of that feeling that I don't pass as a woman.That's how I understood all this stuff I'm saying...
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I like to think I'm not worried about passing, but I guess I am in a way. It's more of an internal metric than an external one, but it's still there. There's a magical threshold in my head when the...
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I decided to do some teeth whitening this morning with some hydrogen peroxide based stuff and there's one spot on one of my molars that REALLY doesn't like it 😵
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I'm distracting myself from the pain by finally finishing my Perseverance Rover #Lego set
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I figure the pain means the active ingredients are still working lolI need to use this whitening stuff because it apparently "expires" in February.Pretty sure that's just the kind of expiration date...
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This is a great build if you like neat mechanical linkages, but that's always been the fun of the #Lego Technic sets
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I finally called to make an consult appointment for hair transplants! *pats self on back*
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I keep feeling like I should call and set up a consult for FFS too, but I've got some ADHD choice paralysis or whatever going on and I'm reluctant to do it.Whatever. I need to cut myself some slack. I...
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I was just thinking about what I want to do for the Eclipse in April, and resenting Texas being off-limits and part of me was like, "Go full in-closet boymode again. Get your hair cut short. Wear a...
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uspol, pessimismI mean, by April we might be in a civil war and Texas will be dangerous for anyone to visit, not just me.
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A baby trans on the Discord for trans people in my area asked, "Has anyone ever used/had a coach to help keep them motivated and/or take them out of their comfort zones during transition?"I just want...
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